Author: Shaman

What Does Right-Relation Mean?

Think of right-relation as a four-part checklist: self, others, place, and the unseen. Do a 10-minute weekly “balance audit.” Self: Aim for the basics most days—sleep, water, a little movement. When your inner voice gets harsh, name the thought and replace it with a kinder, accurate line. Others: In conflict, follow four steps—say what happened without blame, name how you feel, say what you need, and make a clear request. Add a three-breath pause before replying. If you mess up, repair quickly: “I see my part. Here’s what I’ll do differently.” Place: Adopt one “micro-stewardship” habit—pick up three pieces of trash, learn one local plant or bird each week, water a thirsty tree. Unseen/Meaning: Two minutes a day to reflect—one line of thanks, a short prayer, or a value check—and then one small action that matches it (apologize, bring soup, send a message). If the wheel wobbles, choose one quadrant and take the smallest step today. Track progress, not perfection. Over time, these simple, steady moves create a posture that’s clear, kind, and rooted where you live.

S2E201 – The Ravens’ Counsel

Huginn (thought) and Muninn (memory) help untangle rumination. Each dusk, draw two columns: Thought for worries and plans; Memory for three true things—one kindness received, one skill used, one thing learned. Thank each bird, then dismiss them: “Fly and return at morning.” Step outside for a raven watch—fix your gaze on the largest sky‑shape and breathe 4‑7‑8. Keep a night‑stone on the bedside; when wakefulness returns, place it on your chest and whisper, “Not now, morning.” At dawn, review the columns and circle one action. Rhythm beats certainty.

S2E200 – The Drum of Midgard

Gather by rhythm. Tap a heartbeat and walk a circle. Set four daily beats—Wake, Work, Nourish, Restore—with one small action each. Break tangles: 30s drum, 30s do, repeated. Mark transitions with three breaths and three taps. Keep a beat ledger for seven days. Rhythm returns you to center.

S2E199 – The Hearth of Frith

Frith is woven peace. Build a hearth-rite—bowl, candle, woven token—“We heat this house to soften speech.” Breathe four in, four out. Use the two-logs rule: one appreciation, one clear request. Hold a weekly mending hour and a truce gesture to pause before harm. Close: “Heat remains.”

S2E198 – The North Wind of Njörðr

Call Njörðr’s north wind for decision fatigue. Open a window; breathe five slow cycles. Declutter one corner for twenty minutes—keep, release, set to voyage. Keep a three‑line harbor log: Weather, Draft, Bearing. Walk by water and promise movement with direction. Repeat twice weekly. Lightness returns by brisk, kind choices.

S2E197 – The Ancestors’ Trail

There is a path that begins in the soles of your feet and runs backward through time. The ancestors’ trail is not nostalgia; it is a medicine against loneliness and drift. In an age of glowing rooms and scrolling faces, many feel untethered—no clan, no kitchen table, no shoulder to lean on. Tonight we walk the trail to remember we are not self‑invented.

First, choose one kitchen memory—smell of bread, a song, a phrase an elder said. Write it down. If no memory comes, borrow one from the land you stand on: the river’s patience, the mountain’s spine. An ancestor can be a person, a place, a craft well kept.

Second, make a small altar with three simple things: a bowl of water, a piece of bread or salt, and a photo or symbol. Speak aloud the names you know. For those unknown, say, “To the kindly ones who carried me here.” Pour a little water; break a little bread. Reciprocity opens the trail.

Third, practice the kin‑breath: inhale four, hold two, exhale four, hold two, as though you were walking and pausing to listen. On the exhale, whisper, “With me.” The body learns presence by rhythm.

Fourth, extend your line forward. Who receives your care tomorrow—child, neighbor, passerby, your own future self? Do one small act that the elders would recognize as good: mend, share, sing, sweep. Belonging is a verb.

When grief for what was broken rises, sit with it. Place your palm on your back where a hand might rest. Say, “I am arrived.” Loneliness loosens when contact is imagined and then enacted.

For nine days, return to the altar for one minute. Add a name as it comes. The trail brightens with each step. You do not walk alone; you are the latest bead on a long cord, shining because others held the thread.

Be well my friends,

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Who Are My Ancestors, Really?

Blood carries one history; breath carries another. Many of us come from mixed lines, torn archives, or stories spoken in whispers. When the papers fail, the land and the virtues still speak. Your ancestors are those whose love and labor made your being possible—and also those whose ways you choose to continue with integrity.

Begin with the known names, however few. Light a candle and speak them aloud. If there are gaps, say, “For those I do not know, I honor you.” Place a bowl of water and a small piece of bread or fruit; these are common languages across many traditions. Offer a single sentence of gratitude for the gift of life that reached you through imperfect hands.

Now listen for lineage through qualities, not only surnames. Who taught courage in your line? Who carried the work quietly, mended what was torn, fed the children first? Write three virtues you wish to inherit—truth-telling, hospitality, steadfastness—and make them your chosen ancestry. When you practice a virtue on purpose, you join the river of those who lived it before you.

For mixed heritage, hold the strands without forcing them to blend. You are not required to flatten difference to belong. Learn enough of each line to be respectful: how they prayed, how they greeted the day, how they marked grief and joy. Ask living elders for stories, not proofs. A true story is a map; a proof is a fence.

Where harm exists in your line, do not carry it forward. Name it. Choose repair where repair is possible and boundary where it is not. Light another candle and say, “What began in pain ends in my hands.” Then act: apologize, donate, volunteer, or change a habit that repeats the wound. This is lineage work also.

At the end, take your bowl of water to the threshold. Pour a little outside with thanks to the old ones and a little inside with thanks to the living. Stand between and feel the currents meet within you. You are not a broken branch; you are a graft that can bear good fruit.

Be well my friends,

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S2E196 – The Autumn Rune of Jera

Jera, the harvest rune, turns like two sickles chasing each other across the year. In autumn it teaches the weary heart what our hurried age forgets: growth ripens by seasons, not by panic. This episode gathers those who feel behind—burned out, scrolling through other people’s milestones, measuring worth by speed. Jera offers a steadier calendar.

Begin by naming your field. What are you cultivating—sobriety, trust, a skill, a home? Write it at the top of a page. Beneath it, draw the Jera rune: two hooked crescents revolving. Mark four quarters around it—sow, tend, reap, rest. Place your current life in its rightful quarter. If it is sowing time, stop demanding harvest. If it is resting time, stop calling yourself lazy. Rhythm is medicine.

Next, choose one sowing act (fifteen minutes), one tending act (maintenance you avoid), and one resting act (recovery that isn’t a screen). Stack them like a small braid each day for two weeks. Jera works by humble repetition. Burnout eases when effort is braided with rest.

Go outside and collect three autumn things: a leaf, a seed, a remnant stalk. Name them “what I’m releasing,” “what I’m planting,” and “what still sustains me.” Set them where you’ll see them. Let the room keep time with the land.

When envy rises—an old thief—touch the rune and say, “Their field is not my weather.” We do not harvest at the same hour or under the same sky. Jera is justice by seasons: each gets a turn.

Finally, close the day with the harvest breath: inhale for count of five, exhale for five, nine cycles, while listing what was sown, tended, reaped, and how you rested. You will notice: even quiet days offer grain if you look for it.

The autumn rune does not hurry you; it dignifies you. You are not late. You are ripening. Trust the wheel, and let the season teach you when to place your hands on the plow and when to set it down.

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S2E195 – The Secrets of Hel

In the old north, Hel is not a villain but a keeper of thresholds—the quiet hand that steadies us when we meet what cannot be changed. Tonight we walk her road to face a modern affliction: the dread of endings—breakups, lost work, illness, the slow wintering of a dream. Anxiety urges flight from the dark. Hel teaches us to sit with it until our eyes adjust.

First, name what is ending. Speak it without embroidery or apology. The ancients knew an unnamed thing becomes a noisy ghost. Say it plainly: this chapter is closed; this person is gone; this version of me is finished. Feel how the breath loosens as truth lands.

Second, practice the Hel-breath: in through the nose for four heartbeats, out through the mouth for six, as if fogging winter air. On the long exhale, picture frost clarifying a windowpane. The extended out-breath signals safety; the body learns the ground will hold.

Third, light a small candle and ask three questions Hel loves:

1) What is truly dead and deserves burial?

2) What is only sleeping and needs time?

3) What is trying to be born from this ending?

Write the answers without judgment. Grief and growth are siblings; both sit at Hel’s table.

Fourth, take a threshold walk. Find a doorway, a bridge, the line where stone meets water. Step across and back three times, naming what you leave and what you carry. Ritual gives the nervous system markers; the body believes what the feet rehearse.

When memory rises like cold fog, place one hand on chest and one on belly—the Hel-rope that anchors breath to heartbeat. Whisper, “I can be with this.” Shame loses power when met with companionship. You are not alone; ancestors who survived harsher winters keep pace beside you.

Finally, make a covenant: for nine nights, tend one small living thing—water a plant, clear a drawer, write a letter you do not send. Hel honors those who feed life while grieving the dead. Anxiety starves when life is nourished in steady, faithful portions.

The secret of Hel is not morbid but merciful. Endings are doors. Sit in the dim long enough, and you’ll notice: the dark is fertile, and your eyes remember how to see.

Be Well my Friends,

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S2E194 – The Path of Ullr

Here in the North, the first frost carries a lesson. Today’s show, “The Path of Ullr,” steps onto that crisp snow—where sound travels farther, tracks speak louder, and every breath counts. Ullr, silent archer and master of winter travel, is not a god of spectacle; he is a guide of discipline, focus, and purposeful movement. Walk with him and you waste nothing: not an arrow, not a word, not a step.

Ullr’s gifts are practical and demanding. He teaches us to read a land that looks uniform and unforgiving—how to choose a safe line across ice, listen for hollow snow, and move lightly so we don’t invite the mountain to test us. He is the still point from which accurate action emerges. Stance, breath, and gaze aren’t ornaments; they are ethics. You don’t take a shot because you can—you take it because it is clean, necessary, and aligned with duty to place and kin.

We’ll travel three layers of this path. First, skill: bow, breath, body. Practice until the body remembers what the mind forgets under stress. Second, awareness: tracking the seen and unseen. Trails, wind, light, and the language of birds become a moving scripture. Third, oath: wearing “Ullr’s ring” as honest vow—keeping faith with community, game animals, and the winters that still sustain us.

There is healing here. Precision is an antidote to chaos. When life scatters our attention, Ullr returns us to a single arrow—the next right action. He is a patron of thresholds: the first step onto new snow, the breath before truth is spoken, the moment we learn to do hard things without hardening our hearts. This path is not about becoming colder; it is about becoming clearer.

Begin with a small practice: sit tall, plant your feet, soften your jaw. Inhale for four, pause two, exhale six. Feel the ribs draw in like an unstrung bow. This is winter stance—calm, honest, ready. From here we’ll explore tools and boundaries: when to move or wait, speak or keep counsel, and how to cross conflict like a snowfield—testing carefully, committing fully, and leaving the lightest track.

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